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\n>\u7ec4\u7ec7\u6709\u6587\u5316\u5dee\u5f02\u7684\u56e2\u961f(Unite a team amidst cultural differences)
\n>\u6559\u6388\u4ed6\u4eba(Teach others)
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\n>\u8c08\u5224(Negotiate)
\n>\u6fc0\u52b1\u4ed6\u4eba(Motivate others)
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\n>\u4ee5\u793c\u8c8c\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u8a00\u7b80\u610f\u8d45\u5730\u5316\u89e3\u4e89\u8bae(Defuse arguments with timing, instructions and polite, concise language)
\n>\u5bf9\u4efb\u4f55\u8bdd\u9898\u8868\u793a\u5174\u8da3\u5e76\u673a\u667a\u5730\u8c08\u8bba(Feign interest and speak intelligently about any topic)<\/p>\n